My Parents Love My Younger Sister More Than Me

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  • Published on: Sunday, December 9, 2018
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    This is Jennifer, and she has a confession to make. She’s spent a lot of time hating someone very close to her, and now she’s bitterly ashamed of herself. This is her story.

    She has a younger sister, Stella. She was 4 years old when her sister was born, and she remembers that she was really enthusiastic to have a little baby sister who she could play with. Well, she was still a baby herself, to be fair. But things went awfully wrong from the very beginning.

    Stella was born underweight and had to be kept in the hospital. She struggled for weeks, and all the family’s relatives and friends worried about her. In the meantime, Jennifer was forgotten by everyone. Just three weeks previously, she had been the center of everyone’s attention; everyone played with her and gave her presents, and now everyone was talking only about Stella – no one even wanted to know how Jennifer was! So she found an inventive way to attract the adults’ attention to herself: she threw tantrums. But her parents very soon explained to her that a tantrum doesn’t make everyone forget Stella, and that she should be less selfish.

    To be honest, she got very offended, but this passed totally unnoticed by everyone. When they finally brought Stella home, Jennifer felt nothing when she looked at that ugly screaming creature. She couldn’t play with her as they had promised. But at least she finally got her parents back! But no one was ready to spend all day playing with her any more – her parents had other, more important things to do, such as taking Stella to the doctors. Jennifer had to learn to mind her own business and to live with only half of the attention that was supposed to be all hers.

    Then she went to school. Things didn’t improve. Stella remained a sickly child, and her parents were constantly dedicating their time, effort and money to curing one illness after or another. And all the while, Jennifer was just an ordinary kid with her school, hobbies, and friends. Her parents gave her attention, but not as much as she needed, and she solved her problems pretty much on her own. Her attitude to her parents became very bitter, and she started detesting that helpless monster of her sister.

    When Jennifer became a teenager, things got even worse. It was always “Stella this, Stella that”, while it seemed that since she herself was no longer a child, her parents assumed their job done. She tried to rebel to get more attention, to ask for help, even to talk to them. This is when her parents explained to her that they loved her a lot, but they saw her as an independent person who didn’t need that much support. “Look Jenny, you’re strong, you can literally cope with everything! Stella is weak, she’s sick all the time, who will take care of her? But you won’t have any problems whatever the situation. We’re so proud of you!” Yeah, pride is great, but what about a bit of support?

    The worst episode occurred when she was due to go to a new school in another city, and therefore had to move away from her parents for the school term. She’d been asking her parents for ages to buy her a guitar. Everything seemed fine – her sister went to school, and Jennifer thought that finally they would have a well-balanced family. She didn’t communicate much with Stella – she had little in common with her, and wasn’t eager to talk to her when she tried awkwardly to start a conversation. And she was sure that she would get her guitar. Then suddenly Stella got some lung infection and had to stay home for a couple of months, and after that the doctors said that her parents needed to take her to the seaside to convalesce for at least a month. Guess what Jennifer got in return? “Oh sorry dear, a month at the seaside is expensive, can you wait a bit?”

    She was furious. Again, that little princess got everything, and now she had to leave home like a stray dog! She didn’t even try to reason with her parents that time, she just left boiling with anger and disappointment. She even imagined how wonderful life would be without Stella, and didn’t feel any sympathy towards her. Those feelings didn’t fade away during the term and she came home all bitter for Christmas. When suddenly, the time came for giving presents. And Jennifer was amazed to see Stella bring out a guitar.

    She couldn’t understand what was going on. She knew her parents didn’t have any money. Stella said that it was a present from her personally. She confessed that she’d felt bad for being the reason why their parents hadn’t got Jennifer her guitar, so she spent all her personal savings on one, and even did some odd jobs during the autumn to collect money. Jennifer just broke down in tears. Now she’s trying to improve her relationship with her parents and her sister. She’s learned that hating someone without really knowing them well is childish and can backfire on you.

    Music by Epidemic Sound: https://www.epidemicsound.com

    Source: https://youtu.be/TPh38JD97Zo

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  • ACTUALLY HAPPENED

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  • demogorgon queen

    demogorgon queen

     5 hours ago

    First time?

  • autumn quartz

    autumn quartz

     10 hours ago +1

    You should shut up and be grateful for what you have and what you eat every single day every single time person gets born or something they always get treated like that so you should be respectful and not be a dirty Bratz Surplus maybe she's more greater than you all you are is a dirty stupid brat

  • AmadeiaSophia

    AmadeiaSophia

     22 hours ago

    It is sad but you should look after your sister

  • Melinda Enriquez

    Melinda Enriquez

     1 days ago

    No way your sister is spoiled beacause she is the youngest well I’m the youngest my sister 21

  • SailorMoonGamingGirl Kawaii!

    SailorMoonGamingGirl Kawaii!

     1 days ago

    Are those bananas?

  • Ax0Zt7 S4Y th4T n4ME w0Nt g0 T0 H34V4N

    Ax0Zt7 S4Y th4T n4ME w0Nt g0 T0 H34V4N

     1 days ago

    relatable (( my step-grandmother love my baby brother than me, AND THAT MEANS ALOT. ))

  • Florentina Angelica

    Florentina Angelica

     1 days ago

    my parent's is almost same buty lil bro have no ill nesd

  • Passang Dadul

    Passang Dadul

     1 days ago

    Very sad 😢

  • Frieda Junette

    Frieda Junette

     2 days ago

    Hi I'm vynny gacha master the popular youtuber you just bertend to be sick if you want really sick serch at youtube how to be super sick sooooo your got atention from your perents

  • Scribble

    Scribble

     3 days ago

    Nah I still dislike my sister

  • Andrea Hussain

    Andrea Hussain

     4 days ago

    Its okay guys she was a baby at 4

  • aspect goes

    aspect goes

     5 days ago

    Baby sister born underweight
    Jeniffer: nOt eNouGH atTeNtIoN

  • Xenia __

    Xenia __

     6 days ago +1

    The part of our brain that responds for empathy develops really slowly, this is why children often can be super mean, kill bugs, turture animals and bully other kids.
    And it is wrong to expect a child to be empathatic towards even their sibling, when they simply can barely have that feeling.
    And the person who didn't get enough attention and love in such a crucial part of their development, will live with that same problem even as an adult. My bf's mom says she didn't feel loved by her Mom as a child, and even now as a 45 yo woman, she still cries like a baby when she thinks talks about it.
    I know those parents had a hard time with their sick child, but I think they really failed with their first one thinking since she's phisically healthy, then she's fine on her own.
    They did a lot of harm to her mental health unfortunately.

  • Nick Winstanley

    Nick Winstanley

     1 weeks ago

    That’s me and my sis but not the nice part

  • Ann Covarrubias

    Ann Covarrubias

     1 weeks ago

    Little sisters can help a you cause is like family say "OLDER SIBLINGS NEED TO HELP LITTLE SIBLINGS AND LITTLE SIBLINGS CAN HELP OLDER SIBLINGS"🙍 👶 / 👧💖👯

  • KittyCat

    KittyCat

     1 weeks ago

    I wish I had a little sister is my only wish and if you want to come to click this please just click it ..........,.👇🏻

  • Gavriela Alizeth

    Gavriela Alizeth

     1 weeks ago

    Paepal

  • Terrell Segay

    Terrell Segay

     1 weeks ago

    She little and your older

  • 1000 subs with no vid pls subs

    1000 subs with no vid pls subs

     1 weeks ago

    Me gets sick my parents do not do nothing my baby sister gets sick my parents takes her to the hospital so fast and leaves me at the house alone I HATE MY LIFE WHY DO I EXISts